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“Pillow Talk” Part 2: addressing orgasm difficulties

Orgasm Difficulties in Relationships

Understanding Orgasm Difficulties in Relationships Why Communication Matters More Than Performance Many couples struggle to talk openly about sex, pleasure, and orgasm. As a result, misunderstandings can develop, emotional distance can grow, and intimacy may begin to suffer. One of the most common concerns discussed in intimacy counselling is difficulty reaching orgasm or differing expectations … Read more

“Pillow Talk” Part 1: Communication Tips from an Intimacy Counsellor

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How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner Communication Tips for a More Intimate Relationship Many couples find it easier to talk about finances, parenting, or work than they do about sex. As an intimacy counsellor and relationship therapist, one of the first questions I ask couples is whether they feel comfortable discussing their sexual … Read more

3 Key Practices for Creating Relationship Thrival

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3 Key Practices for a Thriving Relationship Do You Feel Taken for Granted in Your Relationship? Have you ever felt like your partner no longer notices you the way they once did? This is one of the most common concerns couples bring to relationship counselling. Often, one partner feels hurt, disconnected, or unappreciated, while the … Read more

How to stop the Power Struggle in your relationship

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How to Stop the Power Struggle in Your Relationship Are You Stuck in a Relationship Power Struggle? Do you find yourself having the same arguments with your partner over and over again? Perhaps one of you feels controlled, while the other feels ignored or misunderstood. Maybe you often think: “Why does everything have to be … Read more

Do you enjoy sex more after a few drinks?

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Can Alcohol Improve Your Sex Life? The Truth About Intimacy and Connection Do You Enjoy Sex More After a Few Drinks? Many people report feeling more relaxed, confident, or uninhibited after having a drink or two. As a result, some couples begin to associate alcohol with intimacy and sexual connection. Over time, however, relying on … Read more

Becoming a caregiver and the perfectionism trap

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Caregiver Stress and Perfectionism: How Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations Can Improve Your Well-Being Are You Falling Into the Caregiver Perfectionism Trap? Becoming a caregiver can be one of the most meaningful and challenging life transitions a person experiences. Whether you are caring for an aging parent, a spouse, or another loved one, caregiving often … Read more

What should be on the top of your to-do list to make your marriage flourish?

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The One Thing That Should Be at the Top of Your To-Do List for a Stronger Marriage Want Your Marriage to Thrive? Many couples seek relationship counselling because something feels missing in their marriage. Often, they describe feeling confused, disappointed, or saddened by the realization that their once-exciting relationship has become predictable and routine. The … Read more

How to stop having certain arguments over and over again…

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How to Stop Having the Same Argument Over and Over Again Are You Stuck Having the Same Relationship Conflict? Do you ever feel like you and your partner keep having the same argument? Perhaps the topic changes slightly, but the frustration feels familiar. One of you becomes irritated, the other becomes defensive, and before long … Read more

Why having a pity party with your spouse is good for you

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Why Venting With Your Partner Can Strengthen Your Relationship Is It Healthy to Complain to Your Partner? Many couples worry that talking about frustrations, annoyances, and daily stress will negatively affect their relationship. However, when done in a healthy way, sharing life’s challenges can actually strengthen emotional connection. In fact, taking time to vent and … Read more