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How to stop the Power Struggle in your relationship

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How to Stop the Power Struggle in Your Relationship Are You Stuck in a Relationship Power Struggle? Do you find yourself having the same arguments with your partner over and over again? Perhaps one of you feels controlled, while the other feels ignored or misunderstood. Maybe you often think: “Why does everything have to be … Read more

Becoming a caregiver and the perfectionism trap

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Caregiver Stress and Perfectionism: How Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations Can Improve Your Well-Being Are You Falling Into the Caregiver Perfectionism Trap? Becoming a caregiver can be one of the most meaningful and challenging life transitions a person experiences. Whether you are caring for an aging parent, a spouse, or another loved one, caregiving often … Read more

How to stop having certain arguments over and over again…

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How to Stop Having the Same Argument Over and Over Again Are You Stuck Having the Same Relationship Conflict? Do you ever feel like you and your partner keep having the same argument? Perhaps the topic changes slightly, but the frustration feels familiar. One of you becomes irritated, the other becomes defensive, and before long … Read more

Are you getting bigger because you’re making yourself small? Part 1

Emotional Eating and Self-Care

Are You Gaining Weight Because You’re Ignoring Your Own Needs? Part 1 The Hidden Cost of Putting Yourself Last Have you ever found yourself constantly taking care of everyone else while neglecting your own needs? Many people, especially women, grow up believing that being a good partner, parent, daughter, friend, or caregiver means putting everyone … Read more

Why having a pity party with your spouse is good for you

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Why Venting With Your Partner Can Strengthen Your Relationship Is It Healthy to Complain to Your Partner? Many couples worry that talking about frustrations, annoyances, and daily stress will negatively affect their relationship. However, when done in a healthy way, sharing life’s challenges can actually strengthen emotional connection. In fact, taking time to vent and … Read more

Do you yearn for freedom and Autonomy?

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Are You Getting Bigger Because You’re Keeping Yourself Small? The Need for Freedom and Autonomy Do You Yearn for More Freedom and Autonomy? Do you spend most of your time making sure everyone around you is happy? Are you constantly meeting the needs of your partner, children, family, friends, or coworkers while putting your own … Read more