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					<description><![CDATA[Are you stressed and feeling in constant crisis mode? Do you spend a lot of time worrying about things that are out of your control? Do you agonize over doing it just right so you can avoid conflict of disappointing others?  Perhaps you experience “crises&#8221; similar to the following examples: Your adult daughter calls you [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[When you can&#8217;t stop criticizing each other &#8211; how to stop the blame game Do you ever think or say “I can never do anything right!” or “No matter what I do, it’s never good enough for you!” when you’re involved in yet another squabble with your partner? When Harry and Jen came to see [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[Do you enjoy sex more after a few drinks? Do you feel less inhibited or does it seem like you can “let yourself go more” sexually after you’ve had a drink or two or three? As a marriage counsellor and relationship therapist I often hear couples share that over time their sex life has lost [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[Becoming a caregiver and the perfectionism trap Becoming a caregiver can activate a lot of emotions. Particularly when women become responsible for the care of a parent, I have noticed how easy it is to get caught in the perfectionism trap.&#160;&#160; It becomes important to do a perfect job, to be a perfect caregiver&#8230;adding an [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lucinda]]></dc:creator>
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