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Comment on “Pillow Talk” Part 2: addressing orgasm difficulties by Kalin

Kalin — Wed, 21 Jan 2015 08:41:17 +0000

All things coedesirnd, this is a first class post

Comment on Do you allow yourself to dream? by Ina

Ina — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 22:12:18 +0000

In reply to Ram.

Hi Ram, I can hear how torn you are feeling between the responsibilities of caring for your family and wanting to follow your dreams. It sounds like at this point you feel that you’re not contributing to the world in the way you hope to. You know, following a dream or being of service or contributing doesn’t always have to mean leaving your current job. Yes, you are unique and special and you have unique gifts and it is wonderful that you have that awareness. At the same time I get a sense that you haven’t totally identified what you’re passionate about. I would suggest that you take some time to journal and go on a journey inside to connect with “what am I truly passionate about?”. Sometimes we get caught up in the idea that our gifts or service should be “glamorous” – you mention performing – but that can have different aspects.. you might “perform” by being a story teller to sick children in the hospital… or you might sing in a choir. Perhaps you are gifted with what you see in the world and you’d enjoy photography. So, take some time… ask yourself – what is missing in your life right now? What hunger in your heart are you trying to still? What happened to your interest in IT – because you studied it… so there must be something there… feel free to reconnect and share your insights.

Comment on Do you allow yourself to dream? by Ram

Ram — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 10:30:20 +0000

Hi Ina,
It’s really gr8 to read ur blogs and articles..it’s really encouraging..I am facing very unique problem, tat I’m struggling to get some answers..
I’m currently 34 and having a 1 year Kid. I have 11+ years of experience in IT Industry and Teaching after my studies..For the last few years (3 years), my mind is very much telling (torturing) me tat I’m not doing “What I meant for”..This feeling is very much painful and I can’t concentrate on my present..I strongly believe that I am doing something (IT field)..irrelevant..I don’t want to die like everyone else..I know I’m unique and born to do something extra-ordinary..
As many of my friends told me that I may perform well @ arts (drawing, music, acting etc.,)..But, considering my age, i’m very much scared that I may put my family @ risk, if I’m going to follow my dreams now!!
I’m torturing myself by asking so many questions and not getting proper answers!!
Please, help ,me to come out of this feelings!!
Thanks.

Comment on Depression, anxiety and the stock market by Ina

Ina — Sat, 03 Sep 2011 01:09:58 +0000

In reply to guadalupe. Thank you for commenting Guadalupe. Yes, there is a lot of reading material out there. I would also recommend mindfulness meditation. There are a number of excellent videos on Youtube particularly by Jon Kabat-Zinn. I also highly recommend his program "The Mindful Way through Depression".

Comment on Depression, anxiety and the stock market by guadalupe

guadalupe — Mon, 22 Aug 2011 21:45:41 +0000

I want to be mindful as much as can be. i recognize is very challenging. The past and the future are so much into my mind. Reading some about cognitive therapy help me. Grateful to you for your advise.

Comment on How you can reap the benefits of change by Ina

Ina — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 18:14:40 +0000

In reply to Al.

You’re right Al, it can seem scary and most often it is a positive learning experience. The painless part of course depends on the type of change on is dealing with. I have found that for many, big change does come hand in hand with grief and loss… and one has to work thru that before reaping the benefits of the learning experience…thanks for sharing 🙂

Comment on How you can reap the benefits of change by Al

Al — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 17:15:45 +0000

Change can seem pretty scary, but usually ends up being a painless, positive, learning experience.

Comment on Do you allow yourself to dream? by Ina

Ina — Tue, 03 May 2011 18:56:01 +0000

In reply to cialis. Thanks for your positive feedback :)

Comment on Do you allow yourself to dream? by Ina

Ina — Tue, 03 May 2011 18:55:23 +0000

In reply to ibogaine.

Thank you for commenting 🙂 and I agree… substance abuse destroys dreams and hold you back from your goal… unfortunately sometimes people turn to substance abuse because they have lost hope and courage or have been hurt and disappointed too many times to believe their goals are worh pursuing

Comment on Do you allow yourself to dream? by ibogaine

ibogaine — Tue, 03 May 2011 06:50:40 +0000

Excellent Encouraging post .Yes Everybody need to fight got own-self and need to focus for their dreams.Success will come true.Drug taking, Alcoholism from depression is very bad think, It will back you from your goal.