Are you considering couples counselling to keep the love you have?

Are you wondering if marriage counselling can save your relationship?

Again and again I hear couples share that they don’t know how it happened. Somewhere along the line the honeymoon ended and the power struggles began.

Feeling lonely, misunderstood or unloved is painful. Being weighed down by anxiety, depression, sadness or low self-esteem can be overwhelming.

Has your magic spark disappeared in the face of childrearing, job stress and financial pressures? Have you become roommates with a specific set of responsibilities, rather than lovers?

When you commit to a partner, no one really teaches you how to navigate the tough times and stay close. Most of us are poorly equipped to move from the honeymoon phase thru the next phase of relationship without getting hurt. Research shows that even the best-matched couples have 5 – 7 areas with marked core differences.

Couples counselling or marriage counseling can help you return to a place where you both feel heard and seen, cherished and loved by the other.

A marriage counsellor can help you recreate an oasis of intimacy and trust, where you feel seen and heard by your partner. A place of knowing that you’re a priority and that your heart is safe with this special person.

During family counselling or couples counselling sessions you will discover how to leverage the strengths that exist in your relationship already.

Combined with my counselling advice you will discover how to

• Resolve conflict successfully – especially around tricky issues such as sex, money and children
• Shift arguments into effective communication so that you feel heard and seen
• Develop and create a shared system of values and meanings so you can support each other in reaching your personal goals and achieving your dreams
• Resolve and avoid the feelings of stress and anxiety that can accompany your relationship because you get triggered into old injuries
• Deepen your ability to give and receive affection generously
• Feel loved and genuinely understood in bed and beyond
• Continue to feel “hot” and “turned on” and present during love-making for the years to come
• Discover how to be proactive in making your relationship better and maintain a high level of positive energy in your connection

Divorce is costly on every level… a 30-minute marriage counselling consultation with me is free.
Call me today at 778 558 8207 or email me at info@positivelifechanges.ca to set up an appointment.

I’d be honoured to sit down with you and discuss the challenges you’re facing  and how you can rekindle the passion, commitment and communication you once had.

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Ina Stockhausen, Evolutions – positive life changes

Family Counselling for Relationship Challenges, Marriage counselor and Couples counselling Vancouver BC, North Vancouver, West Vancouver, Burnaby and Tri-City, Coquitlam,